Positioning

People don't care about how great you are

Prospecting laziness is pervasive and it's costly.

James Barnett

Founder, Realview Marketing

6 min read

When creating a business, you put your heart and soul into it.

You do everything to make the service or offer something you are genuinely proud of. So when it comes to marketing, the instinct is to talk about that. To describe what the business does, how it works, and just how good it is at doing it.

The difficulty is that the person on the other end of that message is not asking to hear about all your amazing features. They are asking whether you are relevant to them, in the situation they are in, and what they are going to get out of engaging with you. Those are different questions, and most marketing only answers one of them.

People are inherently selfish, and that is fine

When someone is scrolling through LinkedIn, scanning their inbox, or reading an article, their time is at a premium. They are giving it up for something useful to them, for example, something that names a problem they have not quite articulated, or gives them a way of thinking about their own situation.

  • A founder listening to a talk wants to know if the insight they see applies to their business right now
  • A decision-maker who sees an ad is assessing whether it speaks to a problem they are actually trying to solve
  • A potential client researching options wants to know whether this business understands their world, not just its own capabilities

The question every piece of content should ask is: what is in it for our audience? That question gets answered, or not, within the first few seconds. If the answer is not clear, most people move on.

Describing how long the business has been operating, how experienced the team is, or how many clients have been served may all be accurate. But none of it answers that question.

Take a step back

Before any piece of marketing goes out - a post, an article, an event, an email - it is worth pausing on three questions. What do you want the person on the other end of this to think, feel, and do as a result of it?

  • Think: what is the one thing they should take away? Are you educating them, inspiring them, giving them something they can use?
  • Feel: how should they feel having engaged with you - about their situation, about the problem, about the business?
  • Do: what is the next step that makes sense for them, at the point they are at right now?

Getting into the habit of asking these questions before producing rather than after is one of the most practical shifts a founder can make. It moves the starting point from what the business wants to say towards what the audience is actually ready to hear.

Value means different things at different moments

Not everyone in the audience is in the same place. Research consistently shows that around 95% of potential buyers are not actively in the market at any given point. What they find valuable depends entirely on where they are in their relationship with the business and with the problem it solves.

  • Someone encountering the business for the first time needs something that earns their attention: a perspective, a useful insight, something that makes them feel understood rather than marketed to
  • Someone who has been aware of the business for a while needs content that builds familiarity and gives them reason to keep paying attention
  • Someone actively considering their options needs enough trust to take a next step, and trust at that stage has already been built, or it has not

Most marketing speaks to the lower funnel (the final point), encouraging people to make a purchase. It pitches, explains the offer, and makes the case for why someone should buy. That content has a role, but it is a small part of what is needed to reach the much larger group of people who are not yet anywhere near a purchasing decision.

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The average B2B deal cycle is said to run for around 272 days. That figure can cause some discomfort, particularly for businesses expecting marketing to produce pipeline quickly. It is something we see all the time; trust accumulates slowly, through repeated exposure and consistent evidence that the business understands what the audience is actually dealing with. Content that gives something before asking for anything is what makes that accumulation possible.

How to succeed

The businesses that build consistent pipelines from their marketing tend to share a few things in common.

  • They are patient. They understand that most of their audience is not ready to buy yet, and they produce content for that majority rather than only for the few who are
  • They are consistent. A strong perspective based on values, recognisable voice across channels and over time is what builds the kind of familiarity that eventually becomes trust
  • They are generous with what they share. Genuine insight and usefulness, offered without an immediate ask, is what earns the right to a commercial conversation when the moment arrives
  • They start with their audience. Not as an abstract segment, but as a specific person in a specific situation, and they write, post, and show up with that person in mind

None of this requires a large team or a significant budget. It requires clarity about who the audience is and what they actually care about, and a genuine commitment to that rather than a default to talking about how good the business is.

Audience-first thinking, sustained over time and across everything the business puts out, is what builds the relationships that eventually become revenue. The businesses that figure that out early tend to grow more consistently, waste less time on activities that produce nothing, and build something that keeps working without constant reinvention.

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james@realviewmarketing.co.uk

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